Firewood Processor Forum

Ok. every single person in our house has an income. The women do all the inside chores & all the men in our house (all 4 of them) complain daily because theyre foods not cooked right, or somethings not clean enough (tho were constantly cleaning) etc. etc.

its causing alot of arguments and if we say anything they say stuff like "the people who come over are going to think your just dirtybitches"
and while they havnt said it, but they act like its the womans role. Yet they dont do any 'traditional' men jobs, like cut the damnn firewood, or mow the lawns - they pay 4 it 2 get done.
The only thing they do is feed our pets, which takes 5mins a day.
what should i do.? im stuck in a house with a bunch of lazy stubborn males, who wont even do their own laundry, and go completely apeshit if it doesnt get done!
oh yea and talking definetly does NOT work.

The women need to quit their jobs, stay at home and keep the house clean and the meals cooked OR the men need to quit their jobs stay at home and keep the house clean and the food cooked.
Or assign everyone tasks.Tell the men if they want clean clothes they wash their OWN clothes, you feed your own pets and everyone takes turns with the dishes and everyone cleans up the bathroom when they are done using it.

you need to put you foot down and show those men you can go ape**** too. Don't do they're laundry and make them get their own food for a week and when they go crazy on you, you go crazy back and show them that if things aren't being done the way they want them to be done then they should get off their lazy bums and do it themselves.
hope this helps :) haha
best of luck

my dad cooks and does laundry and cleans the cat's litterbox, but my brother has one job mowing the lawn and he doesn't even do it and then i get stuck doing his chores!

As a married guy who cooks and does laundry, my advice is to tell them to do their own fu**ing laundry and cook their own damned food if they don't like the way you do it.

Hire a maid and say "If you can get hired help so can I"